No doubt you've heard people talk dirty in movies and wondered how you too can do it just as well to get your man excited. But you still want to maintain your dignity and feel comfortable with the words that you say, right?
I know I've felt this way.
I've been there...
In fact, I was probably the worst woman out there at talking dirty to men. I'd read a few phrases online that sounded like they would work to improve our sex life but whenever I tried them in the bedroom it always felt forced and uncomfortable.
Because it wasn't natural for me, the phrases usually had the effect of killing the passion in the bedroom! And I'm sure you know that one or two bad nights in bed can start to really effect your relationship with your partner in a bad way.
Let me tell you, my partner and I had reached a low point in our relationship. The amount of time between our love making was growing longer and longer and when we did get together it was never like it was when we first started dating. My attempts to spice things up were failing and I was worried that he might start cheating on me..
And then everything changed. Quickly.
Many women love to hear dirty words just as much as men. It helps stimulate the imagination and helps you focus on the actual sex act you are in during the moment. Talking dirty can even help you forget about all the things running in your head. Like I said, it gets the imagination working, which in turn gets the rest going smoothly. Dirty talk is perfect!
Of course, you will want to keep in mind your personal rules and standards when talking dirty to your lover. Dirty talk can both arouse or turn off your partner depending on how you do it. If you have always been noisy in bed, it will be much easier for you to talk dirty in the bedroom. Now, if you are the silent type of person, it may be slightly more difficult getting past the block of fear in the beginning. The greatest way to get better at something is to practice. This is no exception when it comes to dirty talk.
There are many ways to practice dirty talk phrases. If you are extra shy or you are worried about what your partner will think of a certain phrase you want to use, you can start by practicing in the mirror. Actually look yourself in the eyes and practice what you want to say.
This technique is used all the time by CEO’s of major corporation, politicians, and professional speakers before they are talking to a large crowd. Why not use the technique that gets them past the fumbles and mishaps for your dirty talking lessons? There is no reason not to.
When you are practicing to learn how to dirty talk, don’t just practice the words you are saying. Actually practice talking in a sexy voice. Your voice plays a huge factor in getting dirty talk to work. Most men would say they enjoy a sexy voice during sex because it turns them on to the extreme. Who wouldn’t love to hear more moans and exclamations during sex?
These are the sounds we all like to hear so that we know our partner is enjoying what we are doing as much as we are. Practice that sexy voice over and over again.
So you would like some examples of how to talk dirty to a guy, right?
Examples are easy to come up, and a quick search on the internet will show many of them, but here are some, enjoy!
“Stick it in, please!”
“You have the nicest/biggest d**k I’ve ever seen!”
“I want you to rub my cl*t with your c**k… It would drive me totally crazy!”
“I want to be your sex toy tonight!”
“I feel every inch of you”
“I’ve been naughty today…Punish me!”
“I want to milk you and get your cream”
“Tonight you’re going to be my sex toy”
“Open me up and make me blossom”
“Make me feel warm on the inside”
“I want to get naked with you right now!”
“This is going to be the dirtiest night in your life”
Just keep on practicing then you will be good at it.
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